Religious or not, you have to admit, somewhere along the line you would of had your own demons to battle, whether it be a figure or speach or so not. Inner battles between making the wrong or right decision morally or just being able to deal with a particular problem or person in the correct manner can make a small or minor task look alot bigger than it really is.
Pretty much most of the time I just have to realise that its easier to deal with making the right choice than with having to deal with the consequences of making the wrong choice, if you know what I mean than you are also probably one of those people who agree that the right choice is usually quite obvious and easy to recognise yet many people still seem to fail at choosing it.
You cant force a person to make the right choice.
I'm big on the whole free will thing where we are capable as living human beings to make those choices I do not believe we are on the same level as machines or animals. I believe that we also have feelings and soul, a heart that does more than just pump blood, even though we are capable of having the instincts of animals and automatic reactions and responses like a programmed machine.
Sometimes you just gotta listen to your heart, make the right choice and stop hurting people, start caring more and stop leaving yourself lying around for trouble to come and pick you up. If you really don't like your life or the consistant problems you may be running into because of bad decisions you make then maybe you need to finally start making the right choices. After that being a better person or just being able to live peaceully will come naturally.
I know that not everybody believes in god, but I also know its no excuse for making the wrong choices. Whatever you believe in, can't you see somewhere inside yourself that we should all at least be better to each other? Be good to each other, treat each other well but dont forget that when trouble comes for you, you have to say no, you don't want it and its not welcome in your life.
I believe in god and surrounding myself with only better people, I believe in living like this because it gives me a better quality of life and I can tolerate problems better because I know I do not have to keep them.
Let trouble live with its own kind, let the spiteful spite and hurt each other and understand the difference between 'helping' someone and 'condoning' their way of life.
You cant make somebody else make the right choice, but you can make your own decisions on whether or not you condone it and allow such a thing in your household.
Take a stand and live well. If you understood god you would see that he would not give you more than you can bear burden too. If the burden is too heavy ask for help.... or at least realise maybe the burden you are carrying actually isnt yours.
Make the right choice.
I Praise you Lord God, thanks for looking after me.
AMEN.





